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Ballerina Bun Misfit -   
By: Monicca Lebambo  -  

Ballerina Bun Misfit Like any other dance or sport, ballet has its own rules and etiquette. One of the characterizations of a ballerina is the infamous ballet bun. It has always been a skill like a potter with clay in his hands to have the perfect rolled up bun. Young ballerinas from my country to yours share ideas on how to twist and turn their hair into the excellently tied ball. However, not all hair types can easily be shaped into the perfect ballet bun. So, our African sisters who cannot achieve the look with their natural hair extend their hair with braids.   

Linda, an African mother of a young ballerina, found herself in a different predicament after big chopping her 8 year old daughter’s damaged relaxed hair a month before the ballet examination. She expected the worst—what if her little girl was disqualified from the exam after many hours of hard practice? Her little heart broken, and worst of all, having to explain to her the reason that her hair wasn’t the 'right' length and the 'right' texture to make the bun 'just right'. It was at this time that she started thinking that maybe it would have been best if her little girl had settled for Zulu cultural dance instead of ballet.   

On the day of the examination, the hair was still in its roots stage and could not be extended with braids. Even though the well manicured, perfectly round bun was required for the judging of this particular performance, the little ballerina gracefully came onto the stage looking unique and very neat; dancing her allegro confidently and beautifully.   

A query was drawn and points were deducted but she was not disqualified. Even without the trophy, she still looked and danced just right! 
  


March 1, 2010



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written by shay, April 20, 2010
I meant "if the hair ISN'T in a bun then points should be deducted"
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written by shay, April 20, 2010
I agree with Amanda. If the childs hair was long enough she could have put it in a low puff, bun, or got the extention braids. Same thing should goes for any other race. If the hair it's in the bun then points should be deducted from their score. Rules are rule and if the sport requires xy and z then you need to do xy and z period.
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written by Raolat Raji, March 13, 2010
There are some very interesting comments here. I don't think it matters the race of the child. As adults we really have to think long and hard about allowing our children to take part is things that require them to lose individuality. I would have a problem with it if it was a white girl with a pixie cut. I understand if we are talking about a professional performance on Broadway, then what the director wants is what the director gets. But remember we are talking about impressionable young girls that have some much pressure on them to fit this unrealistic "ideal" that society has set for them. Maybe I'm over thinking it, but I would not put my daughter through anything that would make her question her beauty and self worth. That's just me! To each her own!
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written by Malindi, March 07, 2010
It is easy for one to say when you're in rome you do as Romans do, My daughter of 8yrs love ballay. She does swimming and Chess but Ballay is her best sport. Last yeay later she had to do an Exam. her hair is very short due to chemicals that i used before, so we decided to grow it naturally but as you know it takes longer. well i was very sad when she wanted so much to fit in that she begged me to go buy her a wig so she can have a Bolla. i refused buy i had to give her a lot of reassurance. She is as beautiful as ever. i will attach her picture on her Exam day.
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written by Amanda, March 05, 2010
I have to disagree with the comment above. Points weren't deducted for her hair type. Points were deducted because her hair wasn't done the way a ballerina should wear it. If a white girl had participated with her hair down (be it down her back or a pixie cut) she would have lost points as well. Ballerinas just wear their hair in a bun. The little girls race had nothing to do with it.
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written by Rebecca, March 01, 2010
Although the young girl still was able to dance in the competition, I still find it troubling that points were deducted from her overall score. Regardless of the fact that they "let" her participate, they still punished her for not being born a certain way.

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